Big thanks to Shirley Anderson, a coach colleague of mine. She introduced me to a wonderful idea put together by an organization called StoryCorps. StoryCorps created the National Day of Listening, a designated opportunity to sit with a loved one, neighbor, friend, teacher, etc and learn about their life. Through conversational interviews, people will share their memories, their hopes, dreams, joys and sorrows in a recorded conversation with the intent of creating an audio (or written) keepsake.

Here’s what Shirley had to say in her email to me:

“I’m a fan because I neglected to capture these stories from my parents and grandparents and those stories are lost forever … my great-nieces and nephews … and even their parents will never know what it was like for their blood ancestors to come to America as an immigrant.  How precious are those stories of my grandparents and their heroic journeys.

I have lunch weekdays with a group of people who are anywhere from 5 to 20 years older than I am.  Nearly every day there are stories about their lives growing up on farms in this area.  It seems impossible that they and their families survived conditions I’ve only read about.  None of them had the advantages my parents were able to provide for me and my siblings by moving to the city.   They don’t feel like they missed anything, though.  There’s no anger or regret.  If anything, it’s a quiet pride.  Yes, I’m going to start recording them.  The only challenge is to keep everyone from talking at once. It’s a true privilege to know them.”

I often think about the legacy I am leaving to my children and how they will remember me and talk about me to others. Part of what I’d like to leave them with are stories about their ancestors, family members and close friends. It is important to me that my children and the generations to come will feel connected with their heritage and know the background from which they’ve come. Thanks to StoryCorps, this will be the year for me to start capturing these stories!

StoryCorps has lots of tools and information to help anyone plan for their keepsake conversation. I found their Great Questions list particularly helpful to design my interview guides. Here are a few of my favorite questions, meant to be asked to a parent or grandparent (other relatives may be relevant also):

• What was your childhood like?
• Who were your favorite relatives?
• Do you remember any of the stories they used to tell you?
• How did you meet mom/dad?
• What was my mom/dad like growing up?
• What are your dreams for me?
• Is there anything that you’ve always wanted to tell me but haven’t?
• What lessons has your work life taught you?
• If you could do anything now, what would you do? Why?

And, if you happen to be in one of the major cities hosting National Day of Listening events, there will be Mobile Storybooths where you can make a reservation and go with your loved one to record their stories.  The full details can be found on here.

Let me know if you participate in any way. I’d truly love to hear about your experience. I’ll share mine in a future blog. Peace to you and yours as you celebrate this Thanksgiving. I am grateful for my many blessings, of which I include you, my reader, colleague, client, friend.